Okay. You did what you could to prevent a particular stressful situation from arising, but it’s here, and now you need to manage it. Perspective is a critical element in how effective you will be. It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the enormity of a challenge, which can leave you somewhat paralyzed, not knowing where to begin, or it can make you feel scattered, trying a little of this and then a little of that without seeing the whole problem through...